There were various blog and Facebook posts bouncing around over the past few weeks discussing the year that was 2010 and the potential for 2011. I decided to spend those first few days not really posting much, mostly out of laziness, but also out of reflection.
2010 is going to go down as a seminal year for me, personally, as well as our family as a whole. It was a year when I defended my dissertation, culminating in the completion of a Ph.D. and, therefore, the end of my tenure as a student (23 years in the making…). It was a year marked by leaving the bustling city of St. Louis for the more laid-back trappings of rural Iowa, coinciding with both Brooke and I leaving our previous jobs (if you count being a graduate student as a “job”…) and starting new positions in Cedar Rapids and Iowa City, respectively. There was also a 10 year high school reunion in there.
The move to Iowa brought quite a few other changes. We now live in a house, not an apartment. I now have to (get to?) mow a lawn. Brooke gets the garden she’s always wanted. I have a longer commute, plus a bus ride, in getting to work. We had to find a new church and have become more involved that we planned to (but this is how it always goes…). We had to come to terms with the fact that it’s pretty hard to go out to eat once a week when you can’t just walk to Joanie’s for happy hour after work. And we live on a gravel road now. Oh, and it’s a lot colder in Iowa – nice in the summer, crazy in the winter.
Brooke and I celebrated our 5 year anniversary in 2010. In many ways, we interact just like we did back when we were first married, if not as we did before. Of course, the obvious big change in that area is the fact that we added a new member to the family, Meg, who was with us (outside of her mother, at least…) for nearly 10 months in 2010. It’s been a wild ride learning to be a parent (still learning…), but we’re both getting better at it and slowly figuring out how to handle the problems that go with it.
So, when I say that 2010 was a “seminal year,” it’s because of all these things. Lots of big change that will influence the course of our collective life that we’ll be able to look back on with fondness in a few short years.
What’s in store for 2011, you ask? Who knows. Seems hard to top the year that was 2010 when you look at that list. I’d be just fine scaling the big things down for a bit so we can coast and enjoy the changes we just went through for a bit longer. I don’t really see much coming over the horizon except for settling down a bit further, and that’s just fine with me. A few things off the top of my head would be that I’ll find out if my grant gets funded, which will determine how long we’re staying in Iowa; we’ll try a family vacation with a 1+ year old; Brooke will almost triple the size of her garden and get some chickens; and I will brew close to 60 gallons of beer.
Sounds like a good start. 🙂
I can’t wait to hear about the chickens!
2010 really was an awesome year for you all!
so, a couple of weeks ago, I reflected on 2010 and
Brooke and Mallory came up with an unusual list. I agree it was a monumental year. I hope 2011 stays at an even pace.
I was there too! As well as Andy
Wow – 5 years!! Congrats!!
Get excited about chickens and find lots of fun egg recipes! Our neighbors got about 6 (hens only, so no roosters = no noise = happy neighbors!), and we love it when they pass along the extra eggs (with some feather bits usually still attached). The only advice that I have for you is to invest in hawk protection. They have a pretty active dog, and that didn’t stop the hawk from lunching on one of their chickens (on our deck…)…