Peas in a Pod

"I want to watch Busytown with you, Big Sister!"
“I want to watch Busytown with you, Big Sister!”

I’ve been meaning to write something on this subject for a few weeks but never seem to get around to it.  From the beginning, we were curious how Calvin would integrate into our existing threesome (or nine-some, depending on how many creatures we’re including…), and more specifically, how Meg would deal with him and how Brooke and I both have to shift our attention from entirely on her to entirely on her and him (that’s 200% “attention,” for those keeping count).

Surprisingly and thankfully, it’s been shockingly easy.  Meg has displayed nary a hint of jealousy toward him, though she certainly still wants more attention than we can sometimes give her.  In general, she’s actually been pretty helpful these past few months, frequently grabbing a rattle or other toy when we can’t reach one, or staying in the room to watch him as we go downstairs to exchange the laundry.  If he starts crying, she’s quick to say “It’s okay, Calvin.  I’m here!”  This rarely helps, but it’s still kinda sweet…

The more surprising aspect of their burgeoning relationship is how Calvin looks at her.  I mean, he gets excited when one of us walks into the room after we get home from work, but when Meg walks in, he lights up like nothing else.  The other day, I was driving the two of them home and Meg was facing forward singing some song she’d made up.  She wasn’t even singing toward Calvin, but he was just staring at her, laughing randomly.  Meg didn’t think she was saying anything funny, of course, so she didn’t really understand why Calvin was reacting this way.  Still, it’s pretty obvious that she amuses him greatly.

As I’ve mentioned to Nana and others, I’m just waiting for the relationship to turn toward the typical hostility one would expect between a brother and a sister.  Clearly they aren’t going to wait until their teenagers or anything, but will it happen when he starts crawling?  Walking?  When he starts recognizing her toys and messes with them?  There’s already some element of this, as most of “his” toys were previously “Meg’s” toys, and she’s fully aware of this.  It isn’t like she says “No, Calvin, you can’t have that,” but sometimes when she’s playing with him, she’ll take a toy he was currently chewing on as she’s done playing with it, so now he must also be done.

Regardless, he almost always wants to be around her (or, at least, he is happier when she’s around), and she usually wants to be around him.  She still asks to “play with Calvin” just before bedtime, despite being bored with it after maybe 15 minutes of actual “playing.”

I just wonder how long it will last!